My horrible one day life in bangalore

It was not a horrible day for me alone but for most of the bachelors in bangalore. Follow the story I have narrated to know what happened and how it happened in a way it should not
It was 12 April, 3.00 PM, when I was in my main office X in Millers Road. There we were having some hands on meeting with some top level management. Believe me were outnumbered in a conference room. Really it was like suffocating. There comes the news at 3.45 PM there was a news that "Actor Rajkumar is has expired by heart attack". There were some voices like who was Rajkumar. That is not a out of box question for those who are working in Bangalore in an MNC. Because it is place were lot of young and old people work. Obviously young people can have no hint of who is Rajkumar. Again in few minutes 3.50PM there was information that mobs are getting
violent and there is going to be mourning for two days. So everyone was asked to leave to their houses as soon as possible before it was going to be big problem. I started to BTM layout where I was in a temporary gents PG where there is no food provided.
I was little safe enough to have some biscuit packets, water bottle, soft drinks. It was 4.30PM when I reached my room. Safe and I was in the same shape and my bike was also in the same shape as it was. Night came and hunger also came. I had some biscuit packets but that can't satisfy a dinner.So went out for dinner.
It was 10.00PM. In what place I am? Is this bangalore? those where the questions in my mind. Those who are in bangalore know the BTM udpi garden signal traffic jam. But there was no traffic or signal and only some rare vechile movement in the road. I wasn't able to find even a single place to get food or bread packet. Night dinner obviously become biscuits. Cleverly I got the idea of calling pizza corner for placing pizza order. But they said that they are closed for two days. Had few more and slept.
It was almost 10.00AM morning hunger made me to get and sit. I was able to realise that there was no regular life back in bangalore. Had some biscuits and hit bed again. You can't expect more from a bachelor other than what I did that to when there is no work. Again at 11.00AM I was sitting in my bed with hunger! hunger!! hunger!!!. I switched on the TV and saw that there was lot channels blank. As part of state mourning except news channels like NDTV, surya news all others weren't broadcasted. NDTV was showing the violence that was taking place in place in TV. I was stunned to see the mob violence and imporper police planning regarding the situation and how the tackle the situation. It was like someone has to land to save the policeman. I called up home and said that I was safe and sound and called up my friends to know their status. All were safe. Then came the news that the mob were creating problem only in Indira Nagar area where in a Stadium they have kept Rajkumar's body for his fans last respect and other places were safe. Ok thought I could go and have food. So at 3.30PM (nearly after 24 Hrs of having food prior) went to mostly all available closed hotels near my place and then went near office and found the regular mess open but there was no side dish and only rice and gravies. No other go other than to have it. So had it and got some fruits and came back. When I was back to my room I saw in road lot of broken glass doors in all almost all places and very megre traffic was there. Entered into the room and saw in surya TV what they were showing live. The mobs were burning the cars and breaking glass doors on the way to the place where Actor Rajkumar body was to be cremated. It was horrible to see mobs torching someone's car and property. Even the cremation had lots of problem. The polic action for the act was really insane and pre or post actions. Finally the day was over with Actor Rajkumar who wasn't a political figure and an Actor who had a natural death had such a mourning ceremony. The day ended There was traffic on road and bangalore life seems to be partially normal but still closed doors of shops were laid closed. Got my bus to pondicherry at 11.00PM in diary circle and started back to my hometown with my friend who was also unfortunately under protection travelling. What is the result of all that happened? Nothing but ill fame for a good human after death and problem for bachelor's starving for food.

That is the person....

There is lot of "problems" in the world which has no solution.
I think I am trying to address one of them. But this is from my
presepective and things I observed and some psychological way.
This is going to be asexual and for both gender. The solution is
to understand whether a person is spendthrift. In the present
world we are in a situation were we have to make earnest
decisions to spend money and save for surviving.

Ok not too much of philosophy, lets enter into the context.
A man/woman who is looking for woman/man has to first make contact
with the person and then try to understand whether she is a rite
person with whom life can be partnered.
Find whether the person is a spendthrift or stingy. Both are going
to be an issue. The person should spend reasonably and sometimes be
spendthrift and stingy. Categorise when and where a person should be
spending money in different ways of your choice. Since the person is
going to partner you it is your choice. Lead the person to the places
and find out how the person spends in places and how the person is
reacting when you are going to spend money.
Yeah I can see the obvious question that what is the inference from this.
From the way the person spends you can understand whether the person is
suiting your choice and syncing your decisions. Don't expect 100%, 75% is
far more better. Ok now if the person is matching you decisions then we
have to find whether the person is caring us or not/interested in us or not.

This is going to be bit complicated, but you have to be sharp while identifiying.
When you are spending as spendthrift or stingy the person should correct you
righteously. Note how much rights the person takes in correcting you and in the
case of others. This will give you an idea of how the person is considering you.
This will prove how much the person matches you and how much the person is
considering you and respects you. But this doesn't mean the person loves you.
But this is a step for proposing someone. The only thing in world which can
solve the riddle in world whether a person loves someone is just feeling it
and proposing it directly.

The pschological inference behind is very simple: we want to know how much of our identity, ego and superego is present inside our partner. Sigmund Freud considers human mind as iceberg it needs separate post to explain it.