Ennavalae! adi Ennavalae!!

கடவுளே இது என்ன சோதனை
இவளாள் நான் படும் வேதனை
எல்லாம் இருந்தும் எனக்கு பிடித்தவை
அவளுக்கு எப்படி அவையே பிடித்தவை

மாற்றங்கள் கொஞ்சம் வாழ்க்கையில் தேவை
அவையும் நான் விரும்ப அமைய என்ன மாயை
நான் சொல்ல நினைக்கிறேன் பொழுதொரு வ ண்ண முமாய் பலதை
அதையே அவளும் சொல்லி முடிக்க இது என்ன ஒற் று மை

உலகில் என்னை விட நேசிப்பது என் பெற்றோரை
நீயும் என் கருத்துக்கு விதி விலக்கில்லை
இவ்வளவு நேசம் பெற்றோர் மீது கொண்ட உன்னை
திருமணம் என்று சொல்லி எப்படி பிரிப்பேன் அவர்களிடம் இருந்து உன்னை...!!!

-கோபு


Kadavulae ithu enna sothanai
ivalaal naan padum vethanai
Ellam irunthum enaku pidithavai
avaluk eppadi avayae pidithavai

maatrangal koncham vazhkaiyil thevai
avaiyum naan virumba amaiyae enna mayaie
naan solla neenaikuraen pozhuthoru vanamumaiye palathai
athaiyae avalum solli mudika ithu enna otrumai

Ullagil ennai vida nesipathu naan enn petrorai
neeyum yen karthutukku vithi vilaku illai
Ivalavu nesam petrror meethu konda unnai
thirmanam endru solli eppadi piripaen avargalidam irunthu unnai.....!!!


Gobu

this is completely from my brain respository.

Some of my friends were wondering about the last paragraph. They weren't able to understand what I was trying to mean in it.

Here we go.
In lot of marriages the bride and bridegroom after a peaceful marriage start their life. In all fairy tales, it is said "they lived happily ever after". In most movies it is shown that they were happily married, whether they aren't willing to show the difficulties they faced together or in 3 hours they don't want the audience to know so much information.
I am not trying to convey that after marriage there is only sorrow. It is a negative fact which every bachelor have understood. Even as a bachelor :) I to assumed the same. "Assumed" so still I hold on the same concept/fact. "NO".
I don't want to enter much into that part of after marriage life... whether happiness or sorrow ? or whether a mixture of both? May be if can put as a separate article.
Let me not deviate from my short poem and what I am trying to convey.
After marriage our bold bridegroom with lot of pride starts to expect a lot of respect and honour from their in-laws. I am not saying it is wrong. But everything has a limit of practicality. Both in-laws and the bridegroom have to understand some level of practicality in which what they expect as honour which can be never measured... I am not going to say what to expect and not... because practically I haven't crossed through that state of life :) ... BUT we are talking about the bridegroom and in-laws, what happened/happens to the bride? A question about which we are going to talk.
In bridegroom and in-laws problem(what ever it maybe) the easiest condition forced by bridegroom over bride is "you should not talk and go to ur parents". Believe me guys what ever maybe the case he doesn't have to rights to say it. Never parents can be substituted by anyone. For a problem which you didn't find a solution or ur in-laws why are you forcing a heart which hasn't done any wrong to undergo the worst punishment?
That is what I have said in my short poem: I respect my parents very much and you also respect your parents very much. As a person with so much of respect over your parents, how will I separate you from your parents for some petty issues.
Some misunderstood that, "I won't marry and take away from your parents"