Ennavalae! adi Ennavalae!!

கடவுளே இது என்ன சோதனை
இவளாள் நான் படும் வேதனை
எல்லாம் இருந்தும் எனக்கு பிடித்தவை
அவளுக்கு எப்படி அவையே பிடித்தவை

மாற்றங்கள் கொஞ்சம் வாழ்க்கையில் தேவை
அவையும் நான் விரும்ப அமைய என்ன மாயை
நான் சொல்ல நினைக்கிறேன் பொழுதொரு வ ண்ண முமாய் பலதை
அதையே அவளும் சொல்லி முடிக்க இது என்ன ஒற் று மை

உலகில் என்னை விட நேசிப்பது என் பெற்றோரை
நீயும் என் கருத்துக்கு விதி விலக்கில்லை
இவ்வளவு நேசம் பெற்றோர் மீது கொண்ட உன்னை
திருமணம் என்று சொல்லி எப்படி பிரிப்பேன் அவர்களிடம் இருந்து உன்னை...!!!

-கோபு


Kadavulae ithu enna sothanai
ivalaal naan padum vethanai
Ellam irunthum enaku pidithavai
avaluk eppadi avayae pidithavai

maatrangal koncham vazhkaiyil thevai
avaiyum naan virumba amaiyae enna mayaie
naan solla neenaikuraen pozhuthoru vanamumaiye palathai
athaiyae avalum solli mudika ithu enna otrumai

Ullagil ennai vida nesipathu naan enn petrorai
neeyum yen karthutukku vithi vilaku illai
Ivalavu nesam petrror meethu konda unnai
thirmanam endru solli eppadi piripaen avargalidam irunthu unnai.....!!!


Gobu

this is completely from my brain respository.

Some of my friends were wondering about the last paragraph. They weren't able to understand what I was trying to mean in it.

Here we go.
In lot of marriages the bride and bridegroom after a peaceful marriage start their life. In all fairy tales, it is said "they lived happily ever after". In most movies it is shown that they were happily married, whether they aren't willing to show the difficulties they faced together or in 3 hours they don't want the audience to know so much information.
I am not trying to convey that after marriage there is only sorrow. It is a negative fact which every bachelor have understood. Even as a bachelor :) I to assumed the same. "Assumed" so still I hold on the same concept/fact. "NO".
I don't want to enter much into that part of after marriage life... whether happiness or sorrow ? or whether a mixture of both? May be if can put as a separate article.
Let me not deviate from my short poem and what I am trying to convey.
After marriage our bold bridegroom with lot of pride starts to expect a lot of respect and honour from their in-laws. I am not saying it is wrong. But everything has a limit of practicality. Both in-laws and the bridegroom have to understand some level of practicality in which what they expect as honour which can be never measured... I am not going to say what to expect and not... because practically I haven't crossed through that state of life :) ... BUT we are talking about the bridegroom and in-laws, what happened/happens to the bride? A question about which we are going to talk.
In bridegroom and in-laws problem(what ever it maybe) the easiest condition forced by bridegroom over bride is "you should not talk and go to ur parents". Believe me guys what ever maybe the case he doesn't have to rights to say it. Never parents can be substituted by anyone. For a problem which you didn't find a solution or ur in-laws why are you forcing a heart which hasn't done any wrong to undergo the worst punishment?
That is what I have said in my short poem: I respect my parents very much and you also respect your parents very much. As a person with so much of respect over your parents, how will I separate you from your parents for some petty issues.
Some misunderstood that, "I won't marry and take away from your parents"

SALUTATION

What is salutation?
"An act of honor or courteous recognition" is the literal meaning of it.


Whom am I going to Honor is Miss Kavitha.
Who is she?
She is though physically challenged, a human of tremendous will power who survived a lot of hurdles in life and made others also to build confidence.

She is the middle one in the photo.

In life there is lot of time I have wondered, "Oh God what a horrible life you have given me".
Then I realised it is my ignorance which made me to think that.
When I saw this person for the first time I was shocked and felt that it is WILL POWER
which can overcome all hurdles in life.

I still admire this person in leading "Rajiv Gandhi Home for Physically Challenged" people.
Yes that is the Home she has created for those who are willing to take the challenges of life.

More about her you can find in the below link.


Rajiv Gandhi Home for Handicapped

If I am asked whom I will salute to Honor them.
Kavita Madam will be in the top of the list.



Wish you a very best of success in your life, for you make many life enlightened.

A Day in Forum

A day in Forum, Bangalore. Spend less enjoy more



If you have been to bangalore atleast once, then you will
not be asking the question what is this forum is? If
you are a bachelor and you are having weekend off then it
is the place were you can be to enjoy sight seeing a day
by spending less and enjoying more.
Forum mall is a multicomplex mall with PVR cinemas, landmark
and shopping centres. Then obvious that it is place were all
will gather from bangalore which in turn means that surviving
inside forum will be costly. Then how we can spend less and
enjoy more. It is as follows.
Forum mall is near Big Bazar, madiwala checkpost. It can be entered
from housr Road and big bazar side road. Lets start the schedule from
morning 10.00am.
10.00am reach forum mall from any source.
For breakfast there is sagar available in front of forum near crystal plaza.
It is cheap and not bad which can be afforded.
Morning 10.00 am shows are always cheap and all shows before 12.00 noon
in PVR are cheaper.
Take advantage of it.
If you like the smell of books go to landmark the costliest book shop.
Come on guys don't buy any books there. Go to each section and see what are the
varietly of books available.
Don't take a book and read it we will have separate time when we are desparate
we can read books.
Now it is lunch time.
Come out of Forum to Hosur Road. Walk down Rehaja Arcade road.
Ask for Krishna Cafe. It is a south Indian restaurant/mess.
For Rs60/- you can fill from your gut to your throat.
Go by wake to Krishna cafe which will increase your appetite.
In krishna Cafe be a gourmet. Once done walk back to forum.
It will help in digestion too ;-).

Now time for relaxation.
Go to 3rd floor (PVR Floor). You will find steps on either side on which lot of
couples will be sitting (ofcourse). Take your seat over there and relax. You will be
able to have a good view of whole of PVR.
If you are bored enter into Landmark to any section and just go through books/DVD/CD...
It is now evening. What is next time for tea? Obviously.
Come out of forum go to the sagar where you had breakfast and have a tea.
If you love to have fresh fruit juice walk towards dairy circle and you will find some
good fresh fruit juice stalls.
Come back at 6.00 PM. Here comes the time for those who are looking for some crowd.
The crowd starts to pour in like anything.
Take a good place and have the sensex of the crowd at your own interest.
In the whole schedule when you want to drink water you can go to tranist where
you will find water in the right hand corner when you enter transit.

What time it is? time for dinner ... :). Yes time will fly like anything and it is
the only thing which doesn't wait for anything. Okay no philospohy here :).
Go to hungry buddha or sagar or transit even for a good dinner.

Have great time buddies.