All Beginning has an end! All end has a beginning

காசே தான் கடவுளடா

2007-05-09T01:03:00.000-07:00

நான் இங்கு கடவுள் இருக்கிறாரா இல்லையா என்ற சர்ச்சைக்குரிய தலைப்பை எடுக்கப்போவதில்லை.
கோவில் என்று சொன்ன மாத்திரத்தில் அவர் அவர் வயதிற்கு ஏற்ப கோவிலை பற்றிய அபிப்பிராயம் இருக்கும் என்பதுமறுக்க முடியாத உண்மை.

கோவில் என்று சொன்னவுடன் போதுவாக நம் கண்களுக்கு புலப்படுவது வானத்தை நோக்கி நிற்கும் கோபுரம், ஒரேசீராக செய்யப்பட்ட கலசங்கள், முனிவர்கள், கடவுள்கள் , தேவதைகள் பொன்ற பலரின் சிற்பங்கள் பல வண்ணங்களில் கோபுரத்தின் நாலாபக்கமும் காட்சி தரும்.
கோவிலின் வாசலில் கம்பீரமாக நிற்கும் ஒலிக்கும் மணிகளுடன் கூடிய வாசற்கதவு. கோவிலின் உள்ளே நுழைந்தால் அனைத்து பக்கமும் பல கடவுள்களின் ஒவியங்கள் கண்ணுக்கு காட்சி தரும்.

கொவிலின் உள்ளே கூட்டம் எல்லாம் கருவரையில் உள்ள மூல கடவுளை நோக்கியே பிரார்த்தனையில் இருப்பார்கள்.
"கடவுளின் பார்வையில் அனைவரும் ஒன்றுதான்" என்ற சமூக சிந்தனை கருத்தை நாம் பல மக்கள் சேவை வாகனங்களில் பார்த்திருப்போம். மிகவும் சிறந்த சிந்தனை என்று நான் சொல்லுவேன்.

கோவிலில் நுழைந்தவுடன் ஒரு பாதுகாப்பு கூண்டுக்குள் பத்திரமாக ஒருவர் அமர்ந்திருக்க, அவரை நோக்கி ஒரு நீண்ட வரிசை வீற்றிருக்கும். ஒரு வேளை அவரும் கடவுளோ? இல்லை அவர் கடவுளை நெருங்க வழி கூறுபவர்

அவர் அமர்ந்திருக்கும் கூண்டுக்கு அருகே ஒரு கருப்பு பலகையில் வெள்ளை நிறத்தில் சில வார்த்தைகள் . என்னவென்று அருகே சேன்று பார்த்தால்

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அபிஷேகம்                            - ரூ க்க் /-
அர்ச்சனை                              - ரூ ச்ச் /-
சிறப்பு நுழைவு                      - ரூ ப்ப் /- தலைக்கு
அபிஷேக நுழைவு              - ரூ த்த் /- தலைக்கு
அர்ச்சனை நுழைவு            - ரூ க்க் /- தலைக்கு
சிறப்பு அர்ச்சனை               - ரூ ச்ச் /-

என்ன இது, கடவுளை பார்க்க விலையா?
பணம் படைத்தவர்களுக்கு தான் கடவுளை நெருங்கவோ அர்ச்சனை செய்யவோ முடியுமா?
எளியோர்களுக்கு கடவுளும் பணம் இருந்தால்தான் காட்சி அளிப்பாரா?
ஏன் இந்த அவல நிலை?
"கடவுளின் பார்வையில் அனைவரும் ஒன்று தான்" என்ற சமூக சிந்தனை கருத்தை நாம் பல மக்கள் சேவை வாகனங்கலில் பின்புறம் இருப்பதின் பயன் தான் என்ன?

இப்படி பல சிந்தனைகள் எனக்குள் ஓட நான் வியந்து நின்றிருக்க, என் பெற்றோர்கள் "டேய் சீக்கிரம் சிறப்பு அர்ச்சனை சீட்டும், அர்ச்சனை நுழைவு சீட்டும் வாங்கிவான்னு" சொன்னார்கள்.

நானும் அந்த நீள வரிசையில் நின்றேன் கூண்டில் உள்ள நபரை நோக்கி நெருங்க அரம்பித்தேன். எனக்குள் தொன்றிய சிந்தனை என்னை பொல எனக்கு முன் நிற்கும் பக்தர்களில் எத்தனை பேர் இப்படி சிந்தித்தும் இந்த வரிசையில் நிற்கிறார்களோ!!

Reproacher

2007-05-04T02:56:00.000-07:00

"Life runs on a basis of feedback and learning" is something which no one will reject.
But why do we need feedback and learning? Can't we go just like that leading our life?

Here comes a beautiful word "experience".

Many say "experience" is what we say for our failures. Lets not dig in proverbs ;).

But what is the feedback and learning for?

Consider a motor system running with feedback.
If there is positive feedback then the system runs effectively and with increasing energy output.
But if there is a negative feedback then the system degrades and dampens to end.

In life how is feedback going to be...?
Here comes those who find faults and corrects in another persons life.
Many are self reproachers that to positively.

But most of those who are external are negative reproachers.

Those who are positive reproachers they are helping in bringing out the talents of the one they are concerned...

Negative reproachers - vituperators are those who are with superiority complex and headweight who don't understand
what they are doing and spoil even things which are better.

Don't take vituperators seriously. They are not even fit for them.
Value positive reproachers comments.

CONFIDENCE

2007-01-23T23:16:00.000-08:00

Recently one of my best friend was asking me what is confidence?

Really a good question.

As a matter of fact, we should know the difference between lack of confidence, confidence and over confidence.

Can we define them?

What is defining? Factuality of something which is concrete...

But I would say confidence is a relative term.
Lack of confidence is common for everyone.
I can't do is lack of confidence.

Let me give an example for confidence and over confidence.

Let us consider Character X and Y.

There are two cages A and B in which we have Tigers.

Each cage has one Tiger.

Let Z be the critieria or trick required to tame or hunt single tiger.

If X doesn't have tactic Z and Y has tactic Y.

Let us leave X and Y in cages A and B respectively.

Before leaving them in the cage. We ask X and Y whether they are confident over the challenge.

If X says, I am confident even without knowing the tactics and for sure he is going to die, it is over confidence.

If Y says, I am confident with knowing the tactics and for sure he is going to survive, it is confidence.

Now we will take another case,
Let there be one Tiger in cage A and 2 Tigers in cage B.
If X doesn't have tactic Z and Y has tactic Y.
Let us leave X and Y in cages A and B respectively.
Before leaving them in the cage. We ask X and Y whether they are confident over the challenge.
If X says, I am confident even without knowing the tactics and for sure he is going to die, it is over confidence.
If Y says, I am confident even with knowing the Tactics to handle 1 Tiger, but since there are 2 tigers, he is over confident.
So from the above examples it is vivid that confidence is not something concrete for everyone.
It is something relative and depends on your capability.
Something which is over confident for someone can be within confident limit for you based on your capability.

So know your capability and then decide whether you are confident or over confident.

RESPECT - Miss Kavitha madam

2007-01-20T18:25:00.000-08:00

In life respecting and honouring those whom we met in life is something very important.
There may lot of people in life we would like to respect and honour.

But everything has a list of top priority. Those who boosts and influences our confidence level will sure be on the top list.

Miss Kavitha madam(middle person in above photo), Founder/President of Rajiv Gandhi Home for Physically Challenged is one of them whom gave me the increase in confidence level.

She is one whom I will never forget in life.
I still remember the first day I met her. The very moment I met her I understood that life is not worrying with our problems, rather facing them with confidence.

This repectful person passed on 20th Jan 2007 at 6.25PM from this miserable world.
But her confidence will never be forgotten, it will remain among the members of Rajiv Gandhi Home.

I pray that your soul rest in peace.
With due honour and respect.

Oru Nadigai Nadagam Parkiral - Jayakanthan

2007-01-08T22:17:00.000-08:00

Jan 9th, 2007
Today I completed reading this book.
Really a good book to be read in life.
I thought I will write my comment about the book. But one question left me wondering whether I have the requirements to comment that book. So I thought I will use the word opinion/view and not ~~comment~~.
When I completed the book, I remembered a famous sentence/wordings or what ever it may be

"Even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants, unless she finds it. And she will recognise the value of it only when she looses it".

What is the above wordings say? In depth if we look, it says that a beautiful woman who will take lot of care in making her appearance to look appealing and aesthetic based on her physique by choosing what will suit her carefully and particularly/specifically for her. But, even such a decision making person also will not know what she wants or what will suit her unless she sees it or finds it. It is not only with a beautiful woman. It is a figure of speech. It refers to those who are careful and known to be good decision makers. Even those who are noted for their decision making will not know what they want unless they find it.

Now everything which we have a value in one way or rather. Now how we are going to recognise the value of what we have?. Unfortunately human mind doesn't know to understand what it has in hand, unless it is lost. The same holds good for everyone. We won't know the value of what we have unless we loose it. Does that means, we have to loose what we have and then only we will come to know the value of it? NO . Then what is it meaning? Understand the value of what you have when you have it.
Because when you loose it you will not be able to get it back and the pain is going to be
very much based on what you have lost. Is it a warning to be careful in life? Yes I would say it is a warning because being double cautious is not going to cost you a life, but what you lost may cost you another life span.

Now another quote I use to remember is

Expect the Unexpected

It is so short and sweet. Because what it means is, lessen you expectation in life. It is not saying don't expect anything. It in depth means expectation level should depend on the value of what you are expecting. You should not expect something which not worth and get hurted when not got. But if it is something very valuable then expect if you are worth for it. Now life is uncertain. I don't want to discuss whether it is certain or uncertain ;). But take everyday with the belief that something unexpected is going to happen and it is going to be for good. Then you will understand that, every minute and every day will be happy and peaceful.

I sincerely Thank Mr. Dhavamani whom even though never met before, made me to read this book.

Is Love Influential

2007-01-08T00:54:00.000-08:00

I was wondering how love influences those who are in love.
I am not starting this with what is LOVE.
Believe me, it will take a whole lot of explanation, and even then, it is you who have to feel whether you are in love?. Because feelings can only be felt. It cannot be quantified.
But whether it can qualified?
A good question. But before that, what is quality love?. Which leads to another question, is love common for everyone?. The answer is simple "NO".
Love is not common, or rather not same for everyone. It all depends on what criteria taken or what are the things which influenced the lovers to love each other.
Here I am not going to discuss about TRUE love.
Here I am trying to say how Human mind reacts based on the criterias which it has taken for loving someone or the special one for him/her.
Let me take some cases and explain what I am trying to say. But don't conclude anything from the cases, let me first complete the cases and then shape it more appropriately.

case I: "Beauty"
"Hey, I love her/him because she/he looks beautiful". Based on looks and external appearance. I won't say this as the most prevalent form of love in present generation. But many consider so. What is the influence of this criteria over the person who love him/her? He/she will also try make her external appearance appealing and use it to scoreon her/him.

case II: "Money"
"Hey, She/He is rich and so I love her/him". Based on social status and precisely if you want may be monetary background. This kind of love is also available out in the world. Obviously this will lead the lover (he/she) to increase in his/her monetary status, atleast if not what his/her lover expects, but to keep him/her happy.

case III: "Education"
"Hey, She/He has a very good educational background". Based on what she/he has qualified in education. This is also available. I think I need not give explanation on whether it is available. Here he/she will try to attract her/him by taking an equally valuable education to bring in par with her his educational background.

case IV: "Intelligence/knowledge"
"Hey, She/he is intelligent so I love her". Wait what is the difference between intelligence and education? It is something so different to list as a separate case? Yes. Education is just a training to increase you intelligence/knowledge. Presence of knowledge is something which is going to make you survive different complex situations. It is not necessary that someone with good education background will be intelligent/knowledged. This will make the person to show out or incorporate the intelligence which he/she liked in his/her lover.

case V: "Character"
"Hey, what a character he/she has. Wow I love him/her for that character." This is also a mostly prevalent form of love. But this is something complicated and intersting also. Because unless you mingle with a person, you won't be able to understand his/her character. So when you think that the threshold of the persons character is reached for you to love, rather you would have started to love without your knowledge because the person has influenced you.

Now everything is ok... and goes smooth and fine..
The cases said above, do you think that they are separate or a combination of them is going to make a big deal. Yes the combination with different factors like beauty, money, education, knowledge and character. But which is going to matter more and what is the priority is going to change how a person is going to select his/her lover.
Are you asking me what is my priority?
Here we go... Character, Knowledge, Education, Money and beauty.
With Character the highest and including it with knowledge is the very major criteria, then remaining smaller part is education, money and beauty.
I don't think that I have to justify my own personal priority list ;)

Beautiful Day

2006-12-08T13:00:00.000-08:00

Every day is beautiful for many of them.
Why is it not so for everyone?
It depends on how we take a day to be as beautiful.
Also how long the memory of the day going to last and cherish in you.

This day Dec 8th, 2006. Is something not a day but a special day for me.
The memories of the day is going to last for a long and long time...

Death is something natural and in one angle it is passing from one form to another, one life to another.
It is said that when death has shown its signs to us we will have a flash of all the best moments we
had in our life. And this memory will sure flash in me.

Affection in Chat era

2006-12-05T00:01:00.000-08:00

Affection: An word though soft and attractive, is an evil one, which can ruin life...
In this article I have addressed issue from a male prespective. The same holds good
from a female prespecitve also. Let me first give you the meaning of it from www.dictionary.com.

af?fec?tion1 /??f?k??n/
Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[uh-fek-shuhn] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1.fond attachment, devotion, or love: the affection of a parent for an only child.
2.Often, affections.
a.emotion; feeling; sentiment: over and above our reason and affections.
b.the emotional realm of love: a place in his affections.
3.Pathology. a disease, or the condition of being diseased; abnormal state of body or mind: a gouty affection.
4.the act of affecting; act of influencing or acting upon.
5.the state of being affected.
6.Philosophy. a contingent, alterable, and accidental state or quality of being.
7.the affective aspect of a mental process.
8.bent or disposition of mind.
9.Obsolete. bias; prejudice.

Affection is something abstract, but it can be felt. Let us go deep digging to this word.

Let us have 2 characters who will help us digging more about the word. "He" and "Her".

Let us say "He" is affectionate over "Her". Rather, let us say "He" feels affectionate over "Her".

If "He" feels affection over "Her", he should make her understand that affection. Rather, he should make her feel that affection.

Let me take the very first category of "He". This category never will make "Her"
know that they are affection over them. He stays off from her, and appreciate her
presence. For "He", she is the only one. But how come from "her" prespective he will be "the one for her"?. "If you are shy then be shy, if you are out-going then be out-going." is a famous line I read in a dating/psychology book. I meant reveal as what you are to your partner. Both geneder will accept the other gender to be what they are. Instead of confusing yourself what "she" will be thinking if you are shy or out-going. Make her feel that you are true. When you are true to her. They even when you are shy, she will be able to understand you hearts words, when words from your lips are lost.

But how will "he" make "her" understand (make feel) that he is affection over her? When I was reading a book about dating, I was surprised to read the line which said that most of what we are saying will be easily understood by someone based on "60% of all human communication is nonverbal, Body language, 30% is your tone matters. So 90% of what you are saying ain't coming out of your mouth". But in chat era you word and the truth in it counts all the 100%. Never snivel. It will show your lack of confidence. Guys are more confident than girls in expressing their affection. If you are affection over her, say that you like her. Here is the greatest difficulty you will face.

Even though if you say that you "like" her very much, and use affectionate words and caress her... but, everything needs reciprocation. "Even a beautiful woman, will not know, what she wants unless she finds it". It is not only for beautiful woman, in general all women and men are like that. Unless they find a person whom they like and show affection they will not know what they want. There are quite a lot of girls who are passive recievers. But I am not generalising. I would say the reason for this action of girls are either they are not confident enough to say that they "like" him or they are shy. let me complete the line: "Even a beautiful woman, will not know, what she wants unless she finds it. And the value what she found, will not be known, unless she finds it lost."

Affection is something kind of playing a Table Tennis. You need an opponent to return you the ball. I would say reciprocation is like a fight. Both have to fight to show how much they like each other. End of the fight would be success for both. But they should not tussle. So coming back to the toughest part, how to know whether "her" likes "he", how "he" is going to identify it?. If "her" does not show her affection over him? If at all the opponent is not returning the ball when you are playing tennis and it is more like playing with a wall, though it is game it is not fun, the fun will dampen and the one who is playing the ball will get vexed. I will leave this part to the readers to map to real life.

I would say all relationship are like holding a beautiful glass in hand. If you hold it loose, you will miss it. If you hold it tight, you will shatter it into pieces which will tear your hands and will be a scar for rest of your life. A relation in which you show affection, there won't be a decreasing curve if you plot it to timeline, it would be an increasing curve. Now the glass should also be able to get stronger to take the strenght exerted over it, and it should not break. It is not yet over, it should also make the hand which exerts the strength, to make feel that it is not going to shatter but it is accepting it, and make the hand feel comfortable.

Let me map this to real life of modern era. Why is words so important? In this modern world internet chat has become predominant. Where a word typed by "he" with lots of feelings ("hey how are you? how is life?") and affection when read by "her" without feelings will be a reply ("hey I am fine. How is life?"). But when "he" says the same sentence with words of feelings ("hey dear how are you? how is life?") in it, "her" will be able to recognise the affection and reply with affection ("hey dear I am fine? how is life?"). Isn't that one word makes the sentence more affectionate and alive?. (Here I am trying to remind one thing that there are people who use affectionte words to score adn win on each other, So only I said in initial part of article be TRUE, and opposite partner should be able to understand the TRUTH). If "he" likes "her" then he has to say "I like you very much". But there are answers for which questions should not be asked like "whether you like me?". "He" You should make her feel his affection. Unfortunately in this chat and email world only words can make you express it. Believe me, girls are the best recievers. But their shyness or lack of confidence make her not to express their feelings explicitly.

I want to ask each and every girls one question... "How will you feel like you express you feeling to you special man and he doesn't express/reciprocate it properly? Won't you get hurted? Why don't you substitute and think? " If you are not interested in the affection shown by the person, then say frankly that you don't want his affection. It will for sure hurt him, but instead of making getting hurted after a long time in a very bad manner, it is better to stop and make him realise it earlier.

Now there is one more thing left out. There are lot of characters which are more like a passive wall. Though she is a special one for him, whether he is a special one for her also is another question. I am not saying it needs to be conditional. Here also the part I want to stress the words count a lot. "he" says to "her" that "There are a lot things I feel only for you". Isn't it more making her understand that she is special one for him. Adding "you are special one" will make the person feel more concrete in understanding what is being conveyed. If "her" responds it like "okay and I take what everyone does like this only", though it showing "her"s compassion and calm mind/behaviour, how is it going to be for "he"?. Whether he has to take that he is not special one for her? This is also part of affection which can't be asked and people should take responsibility to reciprocate it properly. If at all, he is not special one, then say that "you are not that special to me" else "you are also special to me". If understanding affection in this chat era is difficult then how come people are going to understand it in future technologies.
There is no ways someone can enter into the mind of another and search for answers. It is how/what/when you say is all matters.
So last but not the least, "60% of all human communication is nonverbal, Body language, 30% is your tone matters. So 90% of what you are saying ain't coming out of your mouth". But in chat era you word and the truth in it counts all the 100%.

Ennavalae! adi Ennavalae!!

2006-09-18T03:07:00.000-07:00

கடவுளே இது என்ன சோதனை
இவளாள் நான் படும் வேதனை
எல்லாம் இருந்தும் எனக்கு பிடித்தவை
அவளுக்கு எப்படி அவையே பிடித்தவை

மாற்றங்கள் கொஞ்சம் வாழ்க்கையில் தேவை
அவையும் நான் விரும்ப அமைய என்ன மாயை
நான் சொல்ல நினைக்கிறேன் பொழுதொரு வ ண்ண முமாய் பலதை
அதையே அவளும் சொல்லி முடிக்க இது என்ன ஒற் று மை

உலகில் என்னை விட நேசிப்பது என் பெற்றோரை
நீயும் என் கருத்துக்கு விதி விலக்கில்லை
இவ்வளவு நேசம் பெற்றோர் மீது கொண்ட உன்னை
திருமணம் என்று சொல்லி எப்படி பிரிப்பேன் அவர்களிடம் இருந்து உன்னை...!!!

-கோபு

Kadavulae ithu enna sothanai
ivalaal naan padum vethanai
Ellam irunthum enaku pidithavai
avaluk eppadi avayae pidithavai

maatrangal koncham vazhkaiyil thevai
avaiyum naan virumba amaiyae enna mayaie
naan solla neenaikuraen pozhuthoru vanamumaiye palathai
athaiyae avalum solli mudika ithu enna otrumai

Ullagil ennai vida nesipathu naan enn petrorai
neeyum yen karthutukku vithi vilaku illai
Ivalavu nesam petrror meethu konda unnai
thirmanam endru solli eppadi piripaen avargalidam irunthu unnai.....!!!

Gobu

this is completely from my brain respository.

Some of my friends were wondering about the last paragraph. They weren't able to understand what I was trying to mean in it.

Here we go.
In lot of marriages the bride and bridegroom after a peaceful marriage start their life. In all fairy tales, it is said "they lived happily ever after". In most movies it is shown that they were happily married, whether they aren't willing to show the difficulties they faced together or in 3 hours they don't want the audience to know so much information.
I am not trying to convey that after marriage there is only sorrow. It is a negative fact which every bachelor have understood. Even as a bachelor :) I to assumed the same. "Assumed" so still I hold on the same concept/fact. "NO".
I don't want to enter much into that part of after marriage life... whether happiness or sorrow ? or whether a mixture of both? May be if can put as a separate article.
Let me not deviate from my short poem and what I am trying to convey.
After marriage our bold bridegroom with lot of pride starts to expect a lot of respect and honour from their in-laws. I am not saying it is wrong. But everything has a limit of practicality. Both in-laws and the bridegroom have to understand some level of practicality in which what they expect as honour which can be never measured... I am not going to say what to expect and not... because practically I haven't crossed through that state of life :) ... BUT we are talking about the bridegroom and in-laws, what happened/happens to the bride? A question about which we are going to talk.
In bridegroom and in-laws problem(what ever it maybe) the easiest condition forced by bridegroom over bride is "you should not talk and go to ur parents". Believe me guys what ever maybe the case he doesn't have to rights to say it. Never parents can be substituted by anyone. For a problem which you didn't find a solution or ur in-laws why are you forcing a heart which hasn't done any wrong to undergo the worst punishment?
That is what I have said in my short poem: I respect my parents very much and you also respect your parents very much. As a person with so much of respect over your parents, how will I separate you from your parents for some petty issues.
Some misunderstood that, "I won't marry and take away from your parents"

SALUTATION

2006-09-01T03:22:00.000-07:00

What is salutation?
"An act of honor or courteous recognition" is the literal meaning of it.

Whom am I going to Honor is Miss Kavitha.
Who is she?
She is though physically challenged, a human of tremendous will power who survived a lot of hurdles in life and made others also to build confidence.

She is the middle one in the photo.

In life there is lot of time I have wondered, "Oh God what a horrible life you have given me".
Then I realised it is my ignorance which made me to think that.
When I saw this person for the first time I was shocked and felt that it is WILL POWER
which can overcome all hurdles in life.

I still admire this person in leading "Rajiv Gandhi Home for Physically Challenged" people.
Yes that is the Home she has created for those who are willing to take the challenges of life.

More about her you can find in the below link.

Rajiv Gandhi Home for Handicapped

If I am asked whom I will salute to Honor them.
Kavita Madam will be in the top of the list.

Wish you a very best of success in your life, for you make many life enlightened.

A Day in Forum

2006-09-01T02:58:00.000-07:00

A day in Forum, Bangalore. Spend less enjoy more

If you have been to bangalore atleast once, then you will
not be asking the question what is this forum is? If
you are a bachelor and you are having weekend off then it
is the place were you can be to enjoy sight seeing a day
by spending less and enjoying more.
Forum mall is a multicomplex mall with PVR cinemas, landmark
and shopping centres. Then obvious that it is place were all
will gather from bangalore which in turn means that surviving
inside forum will be costly. Then how we can spend less and
enjoy more. It is as follows.
Forum mall is near Big Bazar, madiwala checkpost. It can be entered
from housr Road and big bazar side road. Lets start the schedule from
morning 10.00am.
10.00am reach forum mall from any source.
For breakfast there is sagar available in front of forum near crystal plaza.
It is cheap and not bad which can be afforded.
Morning 10.00 am shows are always cheap and all shows before 12.00 noon
in PVR are cheaper.
Take advantage of it.
If you like the smell of books go to landmark the costliest book shop.
Come on guys don't buy any books there. Go to each section and see what are the
varietly of books available.
Don't take a book and read it we will have separate time when we are desparate
we can read books.
Now it is lunch time.
Come out of Forum to Hosur Road. Walk down Rehaja Arcade road.
Ask for Krishna Cafe. It is a south Indian restaurant/mess.
For Rs60/- you can fill from your gut to your throat.
Go by wake to Krishna cafe which will increase your appetite.
In krishna Cafe be a gourmet. Once done walk back to forum.
It will help in digestion too ;-).

Now time for relaxation.
Go to 3rd floor (PVR Floor). You will find steps on either side on which lot of
couples will be sitting (ofcourse). Take your seat over there and relax. You will be
able to have a good view of whole of PVR.
If you are bored enter into Landmark to any section and just go through books/DVD/CD...
It is now evening. What is next time for tea? Obviously.
Come out of forum go to the sagar where you had breakfast and have a tea.
If you love to have fresh fruit juice walk towards dairy circle and you will find some
good fresh fruit juice stalls.
Come back at 6.00 PM. Here comes the time for those who are looking for some crowd.
The crowd starts to pour in like anything.
Take a good place and have the sensex of the crowd at your own interest.
In the whole schedule when you want to drink water you can go to tranist where
you will find water in the right hand corner when you enter transit.

What time it is? time for dinner ... :). Yes time will fly like anything and it is
the only thing which doesn't wait for anything. Okay no philospohy here :).
Go to hungry buddha or sagar or transit even for a good dinner.

Have great time buddies.

2 years in Industry

2006-07-04T23:23:00.000-07:00

It has been really great for me to realise how much it is being an experienced professional counting on 2 years.
It is 2 years before on 2004 July 5, I joined in HCL Cisco Offshore Development centre (CODC) as a fresher from college which changed my entire path of life slowly in initial few months of first year and then with a steep growth in the second year.
I still remember the I was not a swot in college or during the joining Time of CODC also. Whether am I now? no and never I will be. ;)
So joining CODC into a team which worked in Catalyst 6500 series switches was the first step in life which I can say a milestone achieved without any effort from my side. I was in CEF for nearly 6 months. Then I was moved to QOS of the same project for 6 months and again to ipv4 forwarding for 6 months. When I was moved to Ipv4 i was asked to go for California, San Jose, US to have training.
When I returned life started to change due to some change in the team, which affected the morale of the team and I was out.
It was Jan 16, 2006 when I joined Riverstone Networks. I was in layer 3 related hardware forwaring moduels. Really it was great to work in small team with lot of work and things to learn. It was first time I was given opportunity to work in customer issues. Now Riverstone Networks is acquired by Lucent Technologies. I was in RS series products for some 6 months and now I am moved to UPM (Universal Packet Mulitplexer). Ooops I have to read some docs of it... Remaining about my 2 years of experience and fun I had in following posts.

I don't want you!!!

2006-05-24T23:47:00.000-07:00

There are a lot of short but interesting poems which everyday I recieve of great words and meanings. Here one which interested me in recent times.

I have given the english meaning also for non-tamilians. (context : The person who says the poem is from India. A boy has to making a deicision about his girl friend to love or not)

Title : I don't want you

Even if the destination is China, my father use to take his bicycle.
But even to next street he asks me to take my motorbike.
How can I leave such a father and come with you?

I stay awake day in and out during exam times. But for my sake my
mother also keep awake.
How can I leave such a mother and come with you?

Cleanly ironed shirt of my elder brother kept for his office visit even if used
by me for road roaming he doesn't get angry over me but feels happy to see
me happy.
How can I leave such a elder brother and come with you?

When I need pocket money my sister gives money she reserved for getting
jewels without hesitation and with pleasant smile.
How can I leave such a sister and come with you?

Prone to anger if I beat my younger brother he will not cry when my father comes to
home so that I won't get caught.
How can I leave such a younger brother and come with you?

Like there are lot of hearts which cry everyday to keep my happy.
I don't want you who make me my heart misearble everyday!

Second stunt in my bike

2006-05-15T02:45:00.000-07:00

It was 13th May 2006, Saturday. The day started peacefully. The very first work to be done after getting ready for the day was to go to PVR cinemas in FORUM mall for Poseidan. So dressed with Jeans and Thich black T-shirt. I rode to FORUM picking up Catinet Velmurgan (college friend) with the same head covered helmet. We had to show till 12.00PM and I liked the film. Before the show myself and Catinet Velmurugan had breakfast in krishna Sagar in front of FORUM. That afternoon we had lunch in Sri Sai Andhra style restaurant which is at walkable distance from Rehaja
arcade.
Afternoon we made purcahse for my house in BTM layout. First we bought a bed and pillow. Then we went to an electronics shop for purchasing TV and DVD player. The purcahse was over and it was to be delievered before 6 PM. I was waiting till 7PM then the delivery was made. But the TV remote wasn't working properly. So I called them and made arragements to immediately change it to a new working piece. I started my bike to catch the main road. The main road was little free than as it was. There was on auto at a little audible distance. I know that it is not good to overtake an auto from left so i went to the right. From no where came a short man behind the moving into the road just in front of my bike seeing the opposite direction in a median laid road. I tried to change the direction so that to avoid hitting him directly.
Then it was fun. My handle bar was turned to left side completely with hand brake and leg brake applied. In few fraction of seconds I was skidding on road for some 2meters. I was wearing helmet and I was able to feel the vibration in my helmet since it was hit on the road and was scratching on the road safely protecting my head. I was able to see the shatter left side viewing mirror spreading all over. I sensed meanwhile that my elbow is getting scratched on the road. Immediately I changed the direction in which I was skidding from left to direction to little right with my hands up, head up and legs up. I was skidding with my left side of back body on road. When I came to rest for few seconds I was not to get any strenght. I felt a sever pain in my right hand wrist between my carpels. The same pain which I felt some when my left hand carpel got a crack during my 9th standard in school. There was a hand which lifted and I reached the median. I was able to get some strength and I was somewhere near the median of a highly traffic road. By God's grace there was no traffic at that time and I survived. I watched whether the guy whom I hit was ok. The people there were scolding the short guy for not seeing the road while crossing. I asked them to leave him. Meanwhile traffic jam started. I took the bike and went to the near by gangaotri hospital leaving my bike in Velmurgan house. I was not able to turn my wrist to give axilator in bike and then managed to reach his house. He was also having little cold. We headed to the hospital within 20 minutes of accident time. After some tests in hand movements I was asked to X-ray. It was over and confirmed that I didn't have fracture or bone injury and only soft tissue injury between carpels. So the right hand wrist movement will be restricted for few days.
I was given a crepe bandagae dressing on the right hand by the doctor. The doctor was so cordial and funny to make patient comfortable. I was really cool all through the time even though i had pain in both hands. The skin scratch on left hand elbow was burning like anything and right hand wrist no moves. If we panic it will cause more tension. So I was cool and cracking jokes with my friend. He was surprised to see my so cool in that situation. Because mind the one which make even worse situation good. So I kept cool to make the things clear and not to panic. I was taken for treatment on left hand. I cotton dipped in hydrogen peroxide was used to clean the wound. Oh god that hurted a lot. I was about to yell like anything. I asked a break from the nurse not to continously expose with hydrogen peroxide the wound and then again the process was done.
Finally after cordial treatment and medical bill payement I was out of the hospital and stayed that night in Velmurgan house and till sunday evening. I am really thankful for the help given by Velmurugan for both the days. Thus was my accident experience in my TVS victor for the second time from Feb2002 to as of now.

The Art of Motion Picture

2006-05-11T08:37:00.000-07:00

Really Amazing.
Check the link.
ART OF MOTION PICTURE

My horrible one day life in bangalore

2006-04-20T07:04:00.000-07:00

It was not a horrible day for me alone but for most of the bachelors in bangalore. Follow the story I have narrated to know what happened and how it happened in a way it should not
It was 12 April, 3.00 PM, when I was in my main office X in Millers Road. There we were having some hands on meeting with some top level management. Believe me were outnumbered in a conference room. Really it was like suffocating. There comes the news at 3.45 PM there was a news that "Actor Rajkumar is has expired by heart attack". There were some voices like who was Rajkumar. That is not a out of box question for those who are working in Bangalore in an MNC. Because it is place were lot of young and old people work. Obviously young people can have no hint of who is Rajkumar. Again in few minutes 3.50PM there was information that mobs are getting
violent and there is going to be mourning for two days. So everyone was asked to leave to their houses as soon as possible before it was going to be big problem. I started to BTM layout where I was in a temporary gents PG where there is no food provided.
I was little safe enough to have some biscuit packets, water bottle, soft drinks. It was 4.30PM when I reached my room. Safe and I was in the same shape and my bike was also in the same shape as it was. Night came and hunger also came. I had some biscuit packets but that can't satisfy a dinner.So went out for dinner.
It was 10.00PM. In what place I am? Is this bangalore? those where the questions in my mind. Those who are in bangalore know the BTM udpi garden signal traffic jam. But there was no traffic or signal and only some rare vechile movement in the road. I wasn't able to find even a single place to get food or bread packet. Night dinner obviously become biscuits. Cleverly I got the idea of calling pizza corner for placing pizza order. But they said that they are closed for two days. Had few more and slept.
It was almost 10.00AM morning hunger made me to get and sit. I was able to realise that there was no regular life back in bangalore. Had some biscuits and hit bed again. You can't expect more from a bachelor other than what I did that to when there is no work. Again at 11.00AM I was sitting in my bed with hunger! hunger!! hunger!!!. I switched on the TV and saw that there was lot channels blank. As part of state mourning except news channels like NDTV, surya news all others weren't broadcasted. NDTV was showing the violence that was taking place in place in TV. I was stunned to see the mob violence and imporper police planning regarding the situation and how the tackle the situation. It was like someone has to land to save the policeman. I called up home and said that I was safe and sound and called up my friends to know their status. All were safe. Then came the news that the mob were creating problem only in Indira Nagar area where in a Stadium they have kept Rajkumar's body for his fans last respect and other places were safe. Ok thought I could go and have food. So at 3.30PM (nearly after 24 Hrs of having food prior) went to mostly all available closed hotels near my place and then went near office and found the regular mess open but there was no side dish and only rice and gravies. No other go other than to have it. So had it and got some fruits and came back. When I was back to my room I saw in road lot of broken glass doors in all almost all places and very megre traffic was there. Entered into the room and saw in surya TV what they were showing live. The mobs were burning the cars and breaking glass doors on the way to the place where Actor Rajkumar body was to be cremated. It was horrible to see mobs torching someone's car and property. Even the cremation had lots of problem. The polic action for the act was really insane and pre or post actions. Finally the day was over with Actor Rajkumar who wasn't a political figure and an Actor who had a natural death had such a mourning ceremony. The day ended There was traffic on road and bangalore life seems to be partially normal but still closed doors of shops were laid closed. Got my bus to pondicherry at 11.00PM in diary circle and started back to my hometown with my friend who was also unfortunately under protection travelling. What is the result of all that happened? Nothing but ill fame for a good human after death and problem for bachelor's starving for food.

That is the person....

2006-04-20T06:19:00.000-07:00

There is lot of "problems" in the world which has no solution.
I think I am trying to address one of them. But this is from my
presepective and things I observed and some psychological way.
This is going to be asexual and for both gender. The solution is
to understand whether a person is spendthrift. In the present
world we are in a situation were we have to make earnest
decisions to spend money and save for surviving.

Ok not too much of philosophy, lets enter into the context.
A man/woman who is looking for woman/man has to first make contact
with the person and then try to understand whether she is a rite
person with whom life can be partnered.
Find whether the person is a spendthrift or stingy. Both are going
to be an issue. The person should spend reasonably and sometimes be
spendthrift and stingy. Categorise when and where a person should be
spending money in different ways of your choice. Since the person is
going to partner you it is your choice. Lead the person to the places
and find out how the person spends in places and how the person is
reacting when you are going to spend money.
Yeah I can see the obvious question that what is the inference from this.
From the way the person spends you can understand whether the person is
suiting your choice and syncing your decisions. Don't expect 100%, 75% is
far more better. Ok now if the person is matching you decisions then we
have to find whether the person is caring us or not/interested in us or not.

This is going to be bit complicated, but you have to be sharp while identifiying.
When you are spending as spendthrift or stingy the person should correct you
righteously. Note how much rights the person takes in correcting you and in the
case of others. This will give you an idea of how the person is considering you.
This will prove how much the person matches you and how much the person is
considering you and respects you. But this doesn't mean the person loves you.
But this is a step for proposing someone. The only thing in world which can
solve the riddle in world whether a person loves someone is just feeling it
and proposing it directly.

The pschological inference behind is very simple: we want to know how much of our identity, ego and superego is present inside our partner. Sigmund Freud considers human mind as iceberg it needs separate post to explain it.

Nice article on endianess

2006-03-28T04:55:00.000-08:00

click the egg

Is that person ...?

2006-03-21T01:13:00.000-08:00

By Human tendency male/female gender looks for a partner of opposite sex. In Sigmund Freud books he would have stated it clearly.
But many guys find it difficult to choose whether a girl is suitable to be a life partner or not. How can that be done? How to know whether a girl is of caring tendency and of resonable mind and whether she is caring of you and reasonable to you. Any ideas? I am not trying to pull the legs of girls. But trying to make everyone understand about her.

Adware.Look2Me

2006-03-21T00:33:00.000-08:00

What is this Adware.Look2Me?
Recently my system was infected by this Trojan/backdoor. How am I going to get rid of this is the riddle and the climax of the post.
Before how to get rid of it let us see what it is in first hand.

A TROJAN is a destructive program that masquerades as a benign application. Unlike viruses, Trojan horses do not replicate themselves but they can be just as destructive. One of the most insidious types of Trojan horse is a program that claims to rid your computer of viruses but instead introduces viruses onto your computer.
The term comes from the a Greek story of the Trojan War, in which the Greeks give a giant wooden horse to their foes, the Trojans, ostensibly as a peace offering. But after the Trojans drag the horse inside their city walls, Greek soldiers sneak out of the horse's hollow belly and open the city gates, allowing their compatriots to pour in and capture Troy.

What happens when this Adware.Look2Me resides in your system? It will start to initiate lots and lots of popup which will pester you. Even for my surprise I saw mozilla firefox was not able to stop the popup. I use Mozilla and IE. In both popups started to shoot out.
Then in the process of getting rid of this one we came across two files which are many times suspected as viruses as alg.exe and svchost.exe. But they are not to know more about them here you can see

alg.exe = Application Layer Gateway Service
svchost.exe = Host process for services

Getting to conclusion that these are not malicious I went into search of some malware remover. In that process I found ewido anti-malware and Ad-Aware personal by lavasoft a freeware. But both found out that there is adware.look2me but both didn't remove it. But I got the clue that it is in guard.tmp file and cookies are affected by it.

Now I am left with google, some clues like guard.tmp, adware.look2me, popups. The default work around was to restore the OS as I am using WIN XP which gives that provision. But I may loose some info during that process. I need some workaround soon even a better fix is welcomed but where it is. Believing that this is not mission impossible and the world in hand(google) I found a forum in which they gave me the solution.

Check out the link l2mfix It was really cool and I am free of popups now.

Later my friend Mr.Jayaraj an Antivirus researcher working for facetime concern gave me the following links which are useful the situations I was.
"
http://x-raypc.com
http://spywareguide.com
http://vmware.com
free anti-spywares...Windows defender.(Microsofts anti-spyware product still in beta), Ad-Aware (lavasoft)
"
Atlast the thought in my mind is let me post this info so that my friends may get benefitted in future.

Graduation

2006-03-18T06:45:00.000-08:00

Everyone in their life have their own list of important dates which they can'y forget. For all graduates there is one common date in mind which is the graduation day.
As a B.Tech graduate of Pondicherry Engineering College for me also March 14, 2006 is an unforgettable day in life where my classmates with whom I lived for 4 years assembled and got our degree Certificate.
Many of my friends got the Degree certificate before graduation day announcement itself. But even after obtaining the degree certificate everyone came for the function and resubmitted on the day of eve for getting it on the stage as a sign or privilege. I believe you can understand the spirit of my friends. Here something for your eyes. (I am using the link from my friend chandru's blog)

Graduation Day Celebrations, PEC IT, Pondicherry - 14th March 2006

We Information Technology students of PEC 2000-2004 was the highest strength of students to come for the day. We proved in college that we are the best and recognised as the first batch of IT and best batch. In graduation day also we proved the same.
Atlast here I am

People in life there are times which never returns here I have presented the one.
I love my college my friends ever and for ever.
There is more to come regarding the Graduation day. Wait....

Health Is Wealth

2006-03-18T06:34:00.000-08:00

What is water?

Highly informative wasn't it. But this water when is not taken in a purified form can even change your fate. Yes my friends, water is something which is the most lovely medium for any kind of germs, fungus, bacteria and viruses.
Many will say that they are taking very clean, purified and hygienic water but even then they are complain that the are affected by water transfered dieases. Where is gap?
We knowingly or unknowingly use lot of contaminated water.
Before having food we wash our hands - A good activity which should be incorporated from childhood. But what does washing hand means? Just show our hand in running water and come?
No! No!! not at all !!!.
Then what is the actual way. We have to use some antibacterial soaps and to wash our hands.
Ok fine now our hands are free but is that all ok?
No! Not at all.
What is the thing we have to do. The chairs, tables though seems clean are not clean.
After washing hands don't use your hand to touch anything other than food.
Ok another thing I see is my friends sometimes when pouring some liquid mixture over food they don't care about the drops which drip out the utensil and mixing with the food. Maintain some gap between the food and unclean utensils and outer portions of bowls.

Hand washing article in Wikipedia

Valentine's day

2006-02-14T00:16:00.000-08:00

The history behind St. Valetine's day.

Walk Walk! Fast walk!! (Be your own doctor)

2006-02-13T23:10:00.000-08:00

Walking all the way and making yourself pyshically healthy is something a important advise said by doctor. But what is the actual funda behind?

Hope the side image gives all the clear picture of what is going to be in the article.
It is all accupuncture it deals with. When you fast walk your foot completely gets the pressure it needs for regulating other parts of the body. But when you jog or run your toes doesn't mostly rest on floor and also the amount of pressure to be exerted for a period is not achieved. When your are fast walking the purpose is satisfied.
So what is really a aerobic fast walk should be like. You should wear a soft footwear which should distribute the pressure equally to all the areas without damaging your foot wiht over pressure or roughness. The duration everyday you have to walk (corresponds to distance)and the amount of pressure (corresponds to how fast you walk) will count for your better health.

Walk Walk! Fast walk!!

2006-02-10T01:13:00.000-08:00

What is the mystery behind walking?
How come walking be the cure for a lot of body issues?
Why fast walking is good when compared to jogging itself.
How is it influencing?
Hope it is not a mystery!!!

Mind - The Biological Clock (Be your time Master)

2006-02-09T00:34:00.000-08:00

Mind - The biological clock seems more like a mystery isn't it. It is not we know the answer but our ignorance has made it invisible. So what is the reason for waking up early morning is:

The day before exam we sleep we generally go to sleep with following general thoughts in mind like :"Morning I should complete revising the chapters 1,2,3 and 4; Morning I should have a glance at Chapter 5; Morning I should have my tools like pen, scale etc ready; Morning should check my bike and packet money; Morning have to go to temple; etc..." and the next day morning we get up at the time we thought of. Many say it is the exam fear. How to analyse this is ? the solution for understanding our Biological clock. The key here is all around the word "Morning" when we are making the checklist of what to be done in morning everything we keep track with respect to the Morning context which our mind has set a time which we are not vivid but it is like a label which has a value inside it.
So all we have done there is we have repeatedly used the label and set the time again and again in our mind deep and clear without knowing exactly that we are doing something like that. Our mind is like something which when is continuously exposed or fed with something will keep track it deep inside. So automatically the time gets in mind and morning we get up at rite time.

The second one regarding "jet lag" is nothing but a mere asynchronous clock. If we are getting exposed to something for few hours itself our mind will keep track of it. We are following our daily schedule for long time and it is set in mind deeply and our whole body system is accoustomed to that only. When we change to some geogrpahical time(GT) zone our biological (BT) which will be asynchronous with the GT. Always we try to adapt to situation and that is the key for EVOLUTION. So we
evolve a little by setting our BT to the GT currently and get accoustom to it. So we loose jet lag slowly. But if you see when return to our same home town also we will feel the jet lag but overcoming that will be less complicated since it is the one ever existing in our mind.

So only comes the lesson by lot of people that "Before going to bed
just think of the time at which you want to get up clearly in mind and
picturise it clearly and very clearly." Then you are the time master
of our own Biological Clock.

Mind - The biological clock

2006-02-03T02:21:00.000-08:00

The strong proof that human brain has a biological clock within himself is a
proven fact. But how are we going to recognise it. Here are some proves from my understanding of "who am I?"
1. When we were going to school and college times. During exam days we will get up morning exactly in the time we want and we will do the task we thought of doing and go for exams. But we can't continuously get up at the same time on other days, why? Morning we get up and at the scheduled time the tasks start to be executed on exam day. But how come this one is getting possible in time of exams but not to strictly follow in long run?

2. When people from one geographical time zone go to other geographical time zone they find "jet lag". What is it? Why is it?

Post your comments about your understanding on this?
Wait for answer in next artivle

Sigmund Freud

2006-02-02T02:32:00.000-08:00

I was happy to get introduced to ideas of Sigmund Freud.
For many it will be the same was as i am felt when
my friend Durai said to me his name first.
"Some familiar kinda name but not exactly able to figure out
who he is".

He is the one who analysed human brain exactly by psychoanalysis
and gave way for a new era of science called the psychology
which was lame there before.

Have a look at the following link
Sigmund Freud.

Believe me or not what is known is the tip of the iceberg.

-Gobu

Back after a long time

2006-02-02T02:31:00.000-08:00

Hi all I am back after a long time.

-Gobu

My one year completion

2005-07-05T10:37:00.000-07:00

Hi all,
It has been 1 year i have joined HCL CISCO offshore development centre and working.
by today i complete my first year and enter into the second year.
--Gobu E

Traffic rules

2005-06-30T23:41:00.000-07:00

Traffic rules in our country are good and laid carefully to overcome congestion and accidents.
But is the goal succeded?
What is the reason?
The rule creators are the rule breakers. The thought in the mind of vehicle owners that their mistake is not going to carried for their future actions. That is when a accident is made by a person or he is creating nuisance in traffic his insurance should have a mark of what he did so that in the future if he again does the same he will be punished severly.
I don't want to say to put hard rules but to strict the already rules for this is for the people not for us.
This is my opinion. what is urs?

Open manhole and unattended pits on the road

2005-06-29T21:51:00.000-07:00

Today lets talk the issue which every day we meet, we get irritated by it but no reponse from our side and from government side. It is the open manhole and unattended pits on the road.
A new road is laid in city which has high traffic density and high humidity. Within a month the manhole is opened and for drainage problem it is attended by digging the road. Is it compulsory to have all the drainage manhole in and within the road premise?
Even after attending the mark left without proper closing is something creating lot of accidents in a road. Due to careless driving the people who pass by these improperly closed manhole meet accidents.
Another case is a road laid newly will be opened by PWD water supply or cable system to make alterations. The flat road becomes a crooked wavery contour street. This creates lot of traffic problems.
What is the reason for all these things?
There is not cooperation between the government departments. Will take a call or a mail or a messenger for a day to know from the water supply department whether the water supply issues in an area is cleared? But the road is laid and the water supply just opens the road the next day. Or can't the water supply know the plans of road laying department?
When there is passage only we can walk. when there is no passage we have to panic only. It is what happening now. Is this to increase the revenue of the government or the officials?

WHAT IS THE SOLUTION????
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When there is going to be a construction of road in an area proper notification from the other departments to clearance to lay the road should be got stating that remaining works are done properly there by their department. The dependancy between the departments my be increased. If after laying the road if the road is tampered by the water supply or any department their activity will be affected in their growth in the department in the salary and whereever they go.

YOU MAY ASK!!!!?
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you may ask me if there is going to be some unexpected problem for somedepartment below the road so it has to open . Isn't it?.
My answer is why to keep a problem below the road keep it away from the road.

IF WE FIX THE ROAD CAN'T WE LAY SMOOTH ROADS TO DRIVE SAFELY TO REDUCE THE ACCIDENTS AND SMOOTHEN THE TRAFFIC FLOW. WON'T THE REVENUE OF OUR COUNTRY INCREASE?

This is my opinion. what is urs????

People below poverty line in INDIA - a special case

2005-06-28T22:04:00.000-07:00

Hi all,
Today i want to say something about what i faced today. There are lot of people below poverty line in INDIA. In them many are called as beggars. I don't want to use that name to identify them.
What is the special case I want to say here? Ladied with infants in hand and pester for money. I won't say it is only there in INDIA. But in all over the world they are present. What is the issue of this with regards to INDIA. The proportion is what bothering me for this post.
In the world mothers affection and fathers affection is something which money can't by even now. Will a mother allow they child to starve in sunlight crying for money. A beloved mother will try her level best to bring up her child but not by the way of standing in traffic or in front of public gatherings and asking money.
So what is real? These ladies for the sake of money use the poverty line of mothers to get their child for such things without full heart due to family situation.
Why is the respective authority for these issues are not talking such heart hurting cheats. I don't want to leave it as such.

Solution IS ANY?
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Yes there is always a solution for all the issues.
Get these people rescue the child from the them and find their mother to first feed the child properly. Now try to give them some jobs which they can take over from their home based on their qualification so that in the future the child will be a literate and in a new world of life. By this jobs can be increased, revenue can be increased for the government. A department of officials can be created to do such acitivities. A major thing to take care is these ladies due to poverty they are forced to do such things so even they do mistakes should be treated properly to recover in life with humblness but not humiliated.

This is my opinion. What is urs? what the government opine in this? Will it change this case in INDIA?

LET THE FUTURE OF INDIA NEED NOT START AS A STARVING CHILDL. LET THE CHILD NOT START THE DAY WITH TEARS. BUT THE CHILD START THE DAY WITH THE GIFT OF SMILE.
LET LETS REALISE IT.

Sethu Samuthiram Plan

2005-06-27T22:29:00.000-07:00

Man Made stunning Canal contructions
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Panama Canal - histroy and features
History of canals in Britan
Caledonian Canal in Europe

When such a canal constructions can be made with old technologies in chronological time.
Why is the Sethu Samuthiram Plan is stil plan not yet completed?
With the available man power and technology we can complete it very fast and improve the revenue.
By this plan we can give more work for people.

This is my view. But what the government views inner and outer of it.

My B'day

2005-06-14T22:26:00.000-07:00

Today is my B'day.
Many of my friends wished.
Some whom i expect to wish me didn't wish.
For past b'days i use to worry why a few didn't wish me.
But this time i didn't worry for that.
For I didn't expect anything from anyone.
I thought let me expect the unexpected than to expect the expected.

My B'day was happy than before but people interaction was less and i was in office for the whole day with work.

Return from US

2005-06-12T22:24:00.000-07:00

Today i returned from US.
That was a nice trip.
Good environment.

Change in onsite trip

2005-04-29T22:23:00.000-07:00

due to change in work area.
I have been asked to come to US on May itself ASAP.
I will be starting to US on May 13.

IPV4 forwarding core

2005-04-29T22:21:00.000-07:00

I have been moved to work for IPV4 core.
I am very eager to work in it.

I initially worked in a module CEF in IPV4 forwarding.
then i was moved to QOS.
Now again i am going to work completely on IPV4 forwarding.

It is a good oportunity for me as fresher.

Onsite trip

2005-04-23T22:17:00.000-07:00

My onsite trip to US has been laid on June 10.
I am getting ready for that from now.
There is a lot to do with it from visa processing.

this is my first flight trip.

Reasons why LIFE without a Girl Friend, rules ..........

2005-04-18T01:43:00.000-07:00

Reasons why LIFE without a Girl Friend, rules ..........

1.You can stare at any Girl.......

2.You don't have to spend money on her.

3.You won't get boring result in ur board papers.

4.No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing.

5.If u don't have a girlfriend ,she can't dump u.

6.Having a girlfriend is hot,not having a girlfriend is automatically
cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy.

7.This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to
ring.

8.You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong"
for u.

9.girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything
according ur wishes anymore.

10.You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a
girlfriend and have a happier family life.

11.You won't have to waste paper writing love letters No more endless
waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop\place.

12.You can have more boy friends(Friends who r Boys), as u will have
more time for them.

13.You wont have to see boring love stories instead of action
thrillers.

14.You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, u'll sin less.

15.You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.

16.You wont have to fight over having a 'special'friend with ur folks.

17.No nonstop nonsense.

18.You wont have drown in the pool of her tears!!!.

19.No tension.

20.You can be " URSELF "

21.You wont have to hide the telephone bills.

Philosophy of life ...................

2005-04-06T06:19:00.000-07:00

"Once the game is over, the King and the pawn go back in the same box."

Italian Proverb

hoax mails please check it before sending

2005-04-05T23:12:00.000-07:00

Hi all this is a HOAX,

Please please I ask u to check whether a mail is hoax or not before sending. For it creates more threats and fear than awareness.

When i read this mail i got disturbed since i have my friends in mumbai. so to know what is going on immediately serached to find whether this is a hoax or not.

Below is the original version.
http://www.hoax-slayer.com/cgi-bin/mojo/mojo.cgi?flavor=archive&id=20041104191110&list=hxez
http://www.hoax-slayer.com/issue44.html

But the information about rohypnol is true
http://www.4woman.gov/faq/rohypnol.htm#5 here are some mind blastering information about it. Please all all be careful.

**** Begin Hoax Copy ****

NEW BREED OF RAPISTS

A woman at a nightclub on Saturday night was
taken by 5 men, who according to hospital and police
reports, gang raped her before dumping her.

Unable to remember the events of the evening,
tests later confirmed the repeat rapes along
with traces of Rohypnol in her blood and Progesterex,
essentially a small sterilization pill.
The drug is now being used by rapists at parties to rape
AND sterilize their victims.

Progesterex is available to vets to sterilize
large animals. Progesterex is being used
together with Rohypnol, the date rape drug. As with
Rohypnol, all they have to do is drop it into the girl's
drink. The girl can't remember a thing the next
morning, of all that had taken place the night
before.

Progesterex, which dissolves in drinks just as
easily, is such that the victim doesn't conceive
from the rape and the rapist needn't worry about
having a paternity test identifying him months
later.

The drug's effects ARE NOT TEMPORARY -
They are P*E*R*M*A*N*E*N*T Progesterex was
designed to sterilize horses. Any female who takes
it WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE.
The weasels can get this drug from anyone who is
in the vet school or any university.
It's that easy, and Progesterex is about to
break out big on campuses everywhere.

Believe it or not, there are even sites on the
Internet telling people how to use it.

Please forward this to everyone you
know, especially girls. Be careful when you're
out and don't leave your drink unattended.

Please make the effort to forward this on to
all you know...Guys, please inform all your
female friends and relatives

**** End Hoax Copy ****

My conference update

2005-04-04T21:17:00.000-07:00

Hi another good news.

I have already presented on research paper on optical networks in Photonics 2004 in an International conference.

Now i got another selected in China COIN2005 INternational conference.

I also got the invitation letter.

So i am ready with my next research paper.

Also there is another result i am waiting for another research paper.

All my success is because of the constant encouragement of my friends and my beloved family.

This is the start and i need more to achive.

Completed CCNA

2005-03-28T11:14:00.000-08:00

Hi i am now completed CCNA with 947/1000.

I suffered for completing that. but it is secret but my suffereings were all for good purpose i belived when i completed it.

I am happy now.

Now my next objective is CCNP

Feel it for its feeling

2005-02-20T22:04:00.000-08:00

A nice one i recieved from my friend......

10th Grade

As I sat there in English class,
I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'.
I stared at her long, silky hair,
and wished she was mine.
But she didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it.
After class,
she walked up to me and asked me for
the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her.
She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

11th grade

The phone rang.
On the other end,
it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how her
love had broken her heart.
She asked me to come over because
she didn't want to be alone, which I did.
As I sat next to her on the sofa,
I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours, and one Drew Barrymore movie,
and three bags of chips, she decided to go home.
She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss
on the cheek..
I want to tell her, I want her to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Senior year

One fine day she walked to my locker.
"My date is sick" she said, "his not gonna go", well,
I too didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,
we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,
we would go together just as 'best friends'.
So we did. That night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step.
I stared at her as she smiled at me
and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Graduation

A day passed, then a week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel
up on stage to get her diploma.
I wanted her to be mine-but
she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
Before everyone went home,
she came to me in her smock and hat,
and cried as I hugged her.
Then she lifted her head from my shoulder
and said- 'you're my best friend, thanks' and
gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Marriage

Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married now.
and will be driving off to her new life,
married to another man.
I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that,
and I knew it.
But before she drove away,
she came to me and said 'you came …!'.
She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
I want her to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.

Death

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin
of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry
she had wrote in her high school years.
This is what it read:
"I stare at him wishing he was mine;
but he doesn't notice me like that,
and I know it. I want to tell him,
I want him to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love him but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
I wish he would tell me he loved me!
.........'I wish I did too...'
I thought to my self, and I cried.

A Bell is not a bell until someone rings it...
A Song is not a song until someone sings it..
Don't hide your true feeling'…...coz'
Love is not Love until someone reveals it...!

* Do yourself a favor; tell her/him you love them.
They won't be there...................Forever. "

Making Code 64 Bit Compliance

2005-02-14T22:34:00.000-08:00

This link seems to be giving good information regarding the 32 and 64 bit differences, and also the places where to handle it.

http://www.geocities.com/mohanasundaram_2000/Writings/Making_Code_64_Bit_Compliance.htm

First day

2005-02-02T04:03:00.000-08:00

Hi all,

this is the first message i am posting in the blog.

-Gobu